Is it really a weakness if it helps her? If he were asked, he'd call that a strength.

A smile quirks when she speaks of her vehement denial. He always believed in spirits, more than anything else, but it's hard not to relate to the shock of a whole new world on the other side of the veil. With the rest, he sobers. He nods his head.

"My wife was a necromancer before I could speak with the dead-- spirit work, not the, you know, raising zombies and stuff." Since that gets mixed up even among mage families, he clarifies. His voice only catches a little mentioning his wife who is very much not herer. "I'm no expert myself, but there can be a lot of differentiation with spirits." Full moon visiting is new but he's sure in a book somewhere.

"In any case, you name the location and let me know ahead of time, I'll be there. And no one else will know." He can promise that much.